Communication is essential to any relationship, and is particularly important when sharing accommodation.
Communication is more than speech, it involves non-verbal language and active listening.
Body language that aids communication includes: making direct eye contact (but not
staring), a warm relaxed facial expression, and a relaxed, slightly forward leaning
posture.
Active listening involves clearing your mind of any judgments, assumptions and
attitudes that interfere with your ability to hear what the other person is saying. It also
involves checking to make sure you understand what is being said.
Use ‘I’ message (‘I feel, I think, I want’). Taking responsibility for your own feelings, thoughts, and needs empowers you and creates more room for negotiation between individuals.
If conflicts occur, avoid personal attacks and focus instead on specific behaviours.
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